Fixed Mindsets Don't Fix Anything

You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.
–Marianne Williamson

Each and every day, in the small things as well as the big ones, you have opportunities to make choices that could change your life. And while some of what you achieve has to do with ability, much of the measure of success is related to your openness toward growth. It has everything to do with how willing you are to develop within a framework of flexibility while overcoming obstacles.

Having a fixed mindset really doesn’t help to fix anything. It just causes you to become stagnant and rigid. A fixed mindset keeps you tethered to old habits. A fixed mindset clouds and dulls your shine.

People with a Fixed Mindset:

  • Become rigid and static
  • tend to criticize anything that doesn’t go their way
  • see obstacles as threatening
  • shrink from challenges
  • miss opportunities
  • believe that they cannot change
  • are threatened by other successful people

But the amazing news is that the power...

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Mindset Matters! The Choice is Yours

Every morning you get out of bed and make a decision about what you’re going to wear. Maybe, like Mark Zuckerberg, you don your “life uniform” of a grey t-shirt and blue jeans. Or maybe you’re more like Lady Gaga, choosing between dressing like a geisha, channeling your inner lightning bolt, or simply wrapping yourself in bacon for the day.

In the same way that you decide what to wear on the outside of your body each day, you also decide (with intention or by default) which mindset will drive your day. This choice that you make every day could make or break your ability to achieve your goals.

With decades of research under her belt, Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck ascertains that your mindset will predict your outcome. 

If your mindset it fixed and immoveable, you’ll fail and get stuck.  If your mind is geared toward flexibility and growth, you’ll move forward in life.

If you expect to fail, you will. 

But if you expect to succeed...

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Want To Be Happy? Change Your Perspective!

mindset self-care Feb 09, 2019

Armed with the knowledge that happiness can be in an indicator of health, and health can predicate longevity, we would all be wise to consider ways we might be able to usher a bit more happiness into our lives!

Attitude is the difference between an ordeal and an adventure.
–Unknown Author

 Each day we can decide whether to see our circumstances as “ordeals or adventures”.

As difficulties or opportunities.

As problems or prospects.

Some people seem to naturally be more cynical/negative/unhappy than others. We have all met our share of grumpy-Ebenezer-Scrooge-types. Maybe you are one! These negative people, regardless of circumstances, seem to have a natural bent toward being more of an Eeyore than a Tigger. But even the deepest melancholy can often be overcome with positive thoughts.

If “look on the bright side” doesn’t chime with you at first, don’t be alarmed. You aren’t destined to fail at being happy. But you may have to work a...

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Age Doesn't Determine Success!

goal setting mindset Jan 26, 2019

Learn to Think (and Act) Like a Millionaire

After hearing about a young person who became a millionaire by the age of 22, all kinds of thoughts may enter your mind. Or that story about Kylie Jenner on the threshold of becoming the youngest-ever-billionaire? Well, she’s certainly living up to her potential and more!

Becoming a millionaire (or billionaire) by the age of 22 would be an amazing feat. However, while it’s not ideal to focus on impossibilities, this is something that is rather unlikely for most of us. Because, if you’re reading this then, ahem, 22 probably happened awhile back.

But just because you might be a bit more mature than these money-making youths, doesn’t mean you can’t take millionaire advice and head in the right direction.   

  • Forget Your Age. Negative self-talk can happen at any age. While twenty-somethings may believe they are too young to be successful, mature adults can be just as self-sabotaging by believing...
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An Abundance Mindset Is Key To a Happy Life

mindset Oct 27, 2018

You may have heard us say that having an “abundance mindset” is a good thing, but do you wonder what the heck we mean by that phrase?

It’s all about the script we run in our heads, which guides our thinking and our actions. In this model there are two basic mindsets: a scarcity mindset, and an abundance mindset.

If you’re guided by a scarcity mindset, you are prone to discontent and an easy mark for marketers because you can never have enough. A scarcity mindset causes you to feel like opportunities are always slipping away. You feel limited and often jealous. Sometimes, this mindset makes people selfish because they feel like others must lose or fail in order for them to succeed.

 An abundance mindset, on the other had, is about realizing the breadth of opportunities for all people to flourish. When you adopt an abundance mindset, your vision expands, limits become elastic, and you become a more generous, expansive person.

Author John C. Maxwell,...

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